I still remember that before I went on exchange, I was worried and perplexed: first, would I change to pursue an easier life (my stereotype of European life) as I leave my hectic Hong Kong schedule for a while; second, how could I lead a worthwhile, meaningful life right there? With these two questions in mind, I arrived in Switzerland.
The University of St. Gallen and CUHK are alike in that they are both located on a mountain. Instructors and students here are pragmatic, with confidence, and students are able to balance their academic and personal lives. Students from diverse backgrounds contribute to the vibrant atmosphere there. Every Wednesday students swarm to bars to have fun, and I joined them twice. It was novel and interesting to me, though, joining them every week would have been too much for my tranquil nature.
Psychologically independent as always, I started off my life alone without hardship. However, I had never tried doing all the housework. Fortunately these are easy to learn and master, and now I am able to cook a variety of foods including Chinese dumplings. Besides, I enjoyed my solitary life. I traveled to six countries, visited a number of museums, and handled everything alone, no companions, no one to rely on, no problem.
But of course, I harvested quite a number of friendships and maintained some. Exchange students grouped together to cook, do sports, party and travel. We talked with gusto and learned a lot from different cultures. In Sweden I enjoyed several days with my CW Chu College-mates, and in Milan my CUHK Business School mentor treated me to a meal and we had a good time. These experiences were really warm and delighting, which proved the value and meaning of college and university.
Apart from rich activities, I reflected upon myself. The more I experienced, the less my previous worries remained. I was not reluctant to leave the easy and comfortable state; on the contrary, I became more ambitious and now look forward to further advancement. Also, I realized the significance of interpersonal relationships, enabling me to balance my solitary and social life. I have a deeper understanding on the Chinese proverb 'to unite knowledge and practice'.
Changes and growth do not happen out of nothing, but from experience, reflection and practice. Exchange life exactly provides students with distinct experience, fostering their growth. I am grateful to the college and the university for this opportunity. I led my exchange life gingerly, hoping I could live up to the expectations. Now returned to Hong Kong, I am ambitiously starting upon my new stage, fighting for further advancement.
